In the digital era we live in, we are constantly bombarded with information on how to become a high-value man to attract the women we desire. This information, backed by scientific research, promises a path to successful and satisfying relationships. However, is this ideal of being a high-value man truly attainable, or is it just an unattainable dream?
From my perspective, I observe a generational imbalance in our society that affects both men and women, where the big losers are men. In particular, I notice that young women, aged 18 to 24, are increasingly heading towards independence. Many of them are preparing for a future where they do not depend financially on a man. In contrast, I see many men of the same age still dependent on their parents, and often more lost than women.
This generational discrepancy may be related to how we are raised. Mothers, influenced by the customs of previous generations, educate their daughters to be self-sufficient and not depend on a man. On the other hand, men are raised with the expectation or false illusion that they will find a «woman who will take care of household chores.» But what does all this have to do with sex? This generational difference makes today’s women much more demanding in all aspects, including intimacy.
In an era where women are aware of female pleasure, which makes them more demanding in intimacy, many men simply cannot meet these demands. Studies show that while a man can satisfy himself in a matter of minutes, a woman may need up to 45 minutes to reach climax. This gap in sexual needs creates tensions in relationships and is generating female dissatisfaction.
In this context, I recommend to readers of this space to take the time to educate themselves about female pleasure and to seek practical ways to become better lovers, and not focus solely on penetration. From experience, I can tell you that penetration is not the most important aspect of intimacy.
Some golden rules to maintain high performance in all areas of your life:
- Eat as healthily as possible.
- Exercise daily to improve your overall physical condition and increase endurance.
- Keep your mind active and read extensively about sexual education and the female body.
- Prioritize emotional well-being and reduce stress in your daily life.
- Experiment with breathing techniques and meditation.
- Do not neglect the importance of rest and recovery.